Life Skills – Effective Communication Skills

  • Effective communication is defined as verbal speech or other method of relaying information that get a point across.
  • Ego is barrier to communication.
  • Communication is also express by emotion.
  • Relationship also depend on:
A B
Acceptable Acceptable under some circumstances but not naturally acceptance
Love  Opposition
Affection  Jealousy
Respect Disrespect
Trust  Mistrust
  •  There is no matter of language. We can use emotion, expression.
  • There is no matter about language there is bridge is important.
  • We need table content (A) is forever.
  • We need to connect with emotion:- बिना बोले समझ जाये।
  • We should treat others the way we want to be treated.
  • We live with relationship. सम्‍बंध में होना।
  • We can communication in eyes.
  • Trust and mistrust is not opposite. One is in other is out.
  • Lake of trust is create mistrust.
  • We need to improve our table content (A).
  • Love, Affection, Respect, Trust are essential component of effective communication.
  • Lack of emotion, we cannot create effective communication.
  • Think of an occasion in the school/home when you lost your cool with some student/colleague/parent/support staff/relative.
  • What made you lose you cool? What thoughts/assumptions/beliefs abated you to get into a mental state which is not naturally acceptable to you?

You can seek help from following question/suggestions to address this question!!

  • Doubt on the intention of the other.
    1. Poor Competence of the other.
    2. My Own poor competence to see beyond.
    3. My own irritation/Inner Disturbance/Reaction.
  • We need improve and develop table content with (A).
  • We work on our good intention.
  • Intention – Every Human wants Happiness and Mutual Happiness throw IP Harmony as is Naturally Acceptable to Every Human.
  • Competence – One is not ensuring Happiness and continuity of Mutual Harmony because of Wrong beliefs/Mind Conditioning or lack of Competence/Right understanding based on Reality.
  • Every one need love, affection, respect and trust even child also.
  • Respect every one. It may be express different way.
  • What are the major factors for Lack of Mutual fulfillment in Relationship?

Lack of Trust, Lack of Gratitude, lack of Affection, Lack of Respect.

Dr. Abhishek Mishra

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